Drunken sex: Go dancing together, down a few drinks and get naughty on the dance floor. Dancing together can be very sexy and will put you in the mood. To continue the magic, have some shots together when you get home and hit the bed when you two are feeling a bit tipsy. People tend to be more confident when they’re drunk. The high from the alcohol and the sexual rush will create a euphoric feeling.
Visual pleasure: Have you tried watching yourself having sex? If you haven’t, you should this week! Watching yourself in action can be extremely erotic and can add to the fun. Place a mirror horizontally next to your bed or video tape the scene and watch it together later.
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The trip will be one of the most memorable and adventurous. Also, no work, household and other stress, you will be concentrating only on each other and will have all the time in the world to explore
Talk dirty: Talk dirty to express how you feel to partner in bed. In the beginning it may sound a bit awkward, but don’t worry, you will get the hang of it. And once you do, it will be awesome!
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Vacation sex: Take a holiday together to an isolated location and indulge only in sex. The trip will be one of the most memorable and adventurous. Also, no work, household and other stress, you will be concentrating only on each other and will have all the time in the world to explore each other’s bodies.
Dress for sex: Don’t take your partner for granted by jumping into the sack in something unsexy thinking the whole point is to get naked! Putting on sexy lingerie and wearing a good fragrance will instantly arouse your partner and make him feel special.
Forced sex: A lot of women have the fantasy of being controlled by their lover. In a forced sex fantasy, the woman wants her partner to force himself inside her while she tries to fend him off. If this appeals to you, talk to your boo about it. He will absolutely love the idea of taking control and will feel empowered.
Raw sex: Slow and passionate love-making is great. But, it can get monotonous. To keep things alive between you two indulge in raw and aggressive sex every now and then. Unleash your wild side by using your teeth and your nails too. He will love it.
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Try a new position: Most couples get so comfortable with their usual routine that they forget to try new things in the bedroom. Try a new position the next time you think your sex life is in a rut. You could start with simple positions and work your way up.
Musical sex: Music and sex are two of the most awesome things on this planet and when you mix them together, it’s awesome sauce! Playing the right song in the background while having sex can be amazing. You could also try dimming the lights and moving your bodies to the rhythm of the music. The sex will feel a lot more passionate.
Mutual masturbation: Sex is not the only way to have a steamy time with your partner. Next time, try indulging in only touching till you two climax. Hit the sheets with an erotic film or book and let your hands wander all over each other. Once the two of you are turned on, help each other orgasm using your hands only.
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