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20 sex tips (and tricks) to turn your man on

by Sobiya N Moghul

sex

 A mousy librarian by day, a sexy crime fighter by night! Craft your own Stripperella look. Pick up a few choice pieces of lingerie, don’t be afraid to indulge in some roleplay costumes and most importantly ensure that you feel sexy by the look you craft. 

Seduction is an art, which does not require a professional degree, training or any special skill. All you need to know is what your man likes. Here’s a cheat-sheet of 20 ways to turn him on.

Pay special attention to how you look:

Remember, men are visual beings, so make sure you look good. Try on some sexy new lingerie, a new tank top, or simply apply a provocative shade of lipstick.

Pay special attention to how you look: Remember, men are visual beings, so make sure you look good. Try on some sexy new lingerie, a new tank top, or simply apply a provocative shade of lipstick.

Auditory cues: Remember the old cartoons of yesteryear, where a buxom woman with a seductive voice would rasp on about how ‘lonely’ she was? Well your man would love to hear you rasp on about wanting to be next to him. Cultivate your ‘bimbo-meets-sexy-siren’ voice and watch him melt away with desire before your very eyes.

Olfactory stimulation: You wouldn’t like your man to smell like liver and onions, so the same rule applies to you as well. Pick your signature scent, and make sure you’re extra liberal with it, if you want him to have one whiff of you and follow you around like a lovestruck pup.

It’s all in the lips: Full and ripe lips are a universal turn on. Make sure that your lips appear full and ready for anything (we mean literally anything).

Dirty talk: While it might sound cheesy, there is literally no substitute for dirty talk. And it is rather simple too, once you’ve cast aside your inhibitions, you only have to tell him what you want to do to him, and what you’d like him to do to you.

Show a little of the ‘goods’: Give him a sneak peek of what he can expect after your date, while on the drive to the date, or send him a sexy ‘selfie’ while you’re getting ready. Either way, a little skin show will go a long way in keeping him hot and bothered.

Strip: A mousy librarian by day, a sexy crime fighter by night! Craft your own Stripperella look. Pick up a few choice pieces of lingerie, don’t be afraid to indulge in some roleplay costumes and most importantly ensure that you feel sexy by the look you craft. Remember, a sexy attitude is as important as sexy attire!

A little body art, never hurt: While some of you may think of body art as tattoos and piercings, the other interpretation could be letting your man, use your body as his canvas, invite him to paint a masterpiece on you. Use chocolate sauce, he can easily clean it off you with his tongue, if he doesn’t like his handiwork!

Put on a little show: Handcuff your man to the bed and indulge him in a private burlesque performance. A little session of ‘look but don’t touch’ and he’ll be rearing to go

Public displays of affection: While we aren’t advocating a full monty in public, a passionate kiss while in a cab or some form of public transport is a turn on. Take a walk in the park, rest under a tree or on a bench overlooking the sea, and when he least expects it, plant a wet one on his lips that will leave him wanting more!

Show him what happens to a naughty boy: Almost every man has a submissive side to him, that when exploited, turns him on to great heights. Take control of your man, ‘punish’ him for being a naughty boy. Be the strict school mistress, the dominatrix, the sexy cop, and he’ll love to be your submissive slave!

Be his chambermaid: On the flipside, your man might just love it if you submitted to him completely. Surprise him with a maid or nurse costume and tell him that he’s in charge. Accede to his every ministration and let him have complete control over you. You will see the wild man in him take charge, and for all you know, you may like it!

A little massage and you can have him eating from your palms: Never underestimate the power ofmassage. Invite him to simply strip down and submit to your ministrations as his sexy masseuse. Use the right kind of oil and the right amount of pressure to ensure that the massage has a ‘happy ending’ for both of you!Sexting: Send him a dirty little text message every now and then to keep him on pins and needles throughout the day. There isn’t a surer way to ensure that he comes home primed and ready for a romp.

Sexting: Send him a dirty little text message every now and then to keep him on pins and needles throughout the day. There isn’t a surer way to ensure that he comes home primed and ready for a romp.

A little lick goes a long way: Use your tongue for more than just talking. Stalk your mate and when he least expects it, pounce on him and leave a long and lingering lick on his sensitive area. That could be anywhere from his lips and neck, to his ears and shoulders or his nipples and stomach.

Let him watch you pleasure yourself: Never underestimate the power of observation. Treat him to a little show of you pleasuring yourself. You will not regret it. Invite him to just watch, and occasionally just kiss or lick your lips. The anticipation will completely turn him on, and you might just get lucky in a relatively short span of time.

Invite him to shower with you: There’s no telling what could happen if the two of you ended up showering together. Ask him to join you cause you’ve been a dirty girl and there is no way he’ll be able to resist.

Read erotica to him: An underrated way to seriously work up your man’s appetite, is to read erotica to him. A couple of paragraphs of ‘50 Shades of Grey’ or any other book, in your sexiest voice possible and pretty soon, you may end up writing your own story.

A night on the town: A night on the town sometimes is the perfect way to break the monotony and turn your man on. Start by dressing sexy, treat him to a few of his favourite dishes and drinks, then an activity of his choice (like bowling or karaoke), followed by a session of whatever he wants in the sack. Make him the centre of the night and he will not disappoint you.

Turn up naked: This one’s a classic, that will never go out of style. Arrange to meet him at his place. Show up in a trench coat. Once you’ve entered his home, drop the trench coat, beneath which you’re naked. This is bound to turn him on.

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